Tuesday, March 24, 2009

A best advice from my friend!


In my opinion, giving an advice and receiving an advice from another people, especially from our friend, and our family, is very worthy and avalaible because from these advices, we can avoid what the bad things happen to us. In reality, no one is perfect from the characteristic to superficial action. For example, when we have a plan to do something although that plan seem fantastic, even maybe destroy our future. At that time, we need to have some useful advices from our friend and family, especially in strange country like me.

Now, I'm living in strange country and feel lonely because i have no family and friend in here. Maybe my characteristic is not friendly and seems serious in people's view, so making friend in here is very difficult for me. I feel so sad about that, but in reality, if you play with me in a long time, you'll never have a thinking like before. My friends said to me that" In the first time, I met you, I think you didn't want to make friend with everybody because you never talk with anybody in class. However, when I maked friend with you, gradually I change my thinking about you. You're so lovely and kind". I remembered before I came here, she said to me at the final meeting, please be more friendly and easy-going with everybody". That is my first advice. I think maybe I'll never do my best-friend's advice. But i'll try my best to change my negative point.

Second advice is about my major. My major is English and fashion design, but now I study in different area, not my major. I have many difficulties in studying Business because I have no background of Business and have no experience about it. I feel confused in deciding what the best major for me now. They said to me that " You must change your thinking now. You'll have a lot of difficulties in catching up the knowledge about business because it's too high and difficult to understand for me. In addition, it's very difficult to achieve your dream if you have no enthusiasm in it". I'm thankful to my friend's advice.

In general, I'm very happy when receiving two best advices and I'll think a lot about these advices. I hope that I'll have a lucid decision about my future career.

3 comments:

  1. We are all lonely, so we need to take care of each other and ourselves. In fact, I am enjoying my independent life right now!

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  2. When I met you last semester (TOEFL class), I thought that you are so charming. Also, I think that you are friendly!!

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  3. When you said that sometimes you felt lonely in the oral language class, I was afraid of you. I also struggled with myself when I was homesick. Luckily, I overcame it and I am happy now because of my friends in ALP. I believe you will be better in a few months. If you make many new friends and keep in touch with your best friend, you will never be depressed.

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